Use your heads as
you live and work among outsiders. Don’t miss a trick. Make the most of
every opportunity. Be gracious in your speech. The goal is to bring out
the best in others in a conversation, not put them down, not cut them
out.
Colossians 4:5-6
When you think of "making the most of every day," what comes to mind? Do you think about how YOU can get ahead or do you consider how you can help others? Make the most of every moment of every day! That might sound like a lot of work because our natural instinct it to look out only for #1. Have you notice that the message of the Bible is often in direct conflict with how we naturally think and act?
When you have conversations, bring out the best in others! That takes focused effort. Is it worth the effort? Absolutely! You see, when we are able to bring out the best in others, not only does that reflect on us, but it is much appreciated by others AND those who hear the conversation will see you in a more positive light. It's truly a win-win prospect.
Now...on the other side of that coin, when we put someone down or just leave them out of the conversation altogether (even when they are standing right there), that also reflects back on us and those who hear the conversation will see you in a different light. A light we may not appreciate.
If you notice, I spend quite a bit of time talking about encouraging others and building them up and reaching out to help them. Why? Because the influences of our society hammer us with the opposite message day after day! Take a moment, right now, and lift someone up that you normally might not.
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