How To Hug A Porcupine!

Do all that you can to live in peace with everyone.

Romans 12:18

 

Have you ever tried to hug a porcupine?  Yeah, probably not, which is a wise decision.  But have you ever tried to deal with a difficult person?  This discussion came up in Bible study last week.  How do you deal with "prickly" people?  

 

First, don't take their prickliness personally and be quick to forgive.  Try a change of perspective.  Perhaps they are under a lot of stress and pressure.  Perhaps they are having one of "those" days. Perhaps there are issues you aren't aware of.  Perhaps they don't realize that they are being a porcupine.

 

Second, be cordial, courteous, and friendly.  Sometimes people who are having a bad day just need a smile and a "Hi" from someone to let them know you care. Sometimes it's best to do is let them know you care and then give them some space.

 

Third, remind them they have value.  Everyone likes to know their efforts are appreciated.  Matter of fact, everyone likes to know they are appreciated and valuable. We like to know that our contribution to this world matters.

And above all else, put yourself in their shoes if possible.  If you were being a porcupine, how would you want to be treated.  Jesus told us to Love God with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength and to love others as we love ourselves.  Respond to porcupines with love and respect.  After all, we all have those days where we are porcupines.