Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them.
Ephesians 4:29
Remember the movie "The Karate Kid" when Mister Miyagi taught Daniel about karate? Mr. Miyagi's approach was not what Daniel was expecting or what he wanted, but it was ultimately successful. ALL Daniel wanted to learn was how to beat up a bully, Mister Miyagi taught Daniel much so much more. Daniel learned about respect, hard work, patience, concentration, focus, and self-respect.
When we encourage others, should we not do the same? Just shouting "You can do it" is not exactly helpful. Clapping and cheering, while they have their place, don't exactly teach. When we truly encourage, we become teachers helping others either figure out a solution to their dilemma or helping them discover and refine the skills to achieve a goal.
You see....true encouragers are mentors!
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