A man of many companions may come to ruin,
but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.
but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.
Proverbs 18:24
I am often astounded by the number of "friends" people have on Facebook. I am even more astounded by the people we so willingly call friends. One person contacted me on Facebook to ask me a question, when I looked at their profile I saw they had over 500 "friends."
Way back when I was growing up, with the baby dinosaurs, I was taught that there are only three kinds of people in life:
* Strangers (people we have not met),
* Acquaintances (people with whom we have met and will greet in passing) and
* Friends (those who would not only stick with you through anything and everything, but probably were the ones who got you into trouble in the first place).
The photo for today is of my buddy. His name is Woody Bear. When I come home from work, or the store, or from the mailbox, or from taking the trash out, Woody Bear greets me like I have been gone forever. When it is time for morning coffee and Quiet Time, Woody Bear is right there with me wanting to be close and wanting to remind me that he loves me. I can tell him ANYTHING and he'll not change his opinion of me.
Be careful of who you allow to get close to you. Remember Julius Caesar? He allowed Brutus to get close to him and Brutus ended up helping kill Caesar.
Don't like drama? Go through your group of friends and drop the ones who create drama. Don't like sushi? Go through your group of friends and drop the ones who insist you have to eat sushi.
WE select our friends. Make sure you are a Friend worth having. Benjamin Franklin once wrote: "If you would have a friend, first BE a friend!"
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