Wednesday, July 6, 2016

Why Is It 'Haters Gonna Hate'?

Work at living in peace with everyone, and work at living a holy life, for those who are not holy will not see the Lord.
Hebrews 12:14

We hear some form of it almost every single day: "If you don't agree with my choices then you are a ______ (racist, bigot, hater, idiot, insert your favorite insult)". We claim that everyone who disagrees with our stance on an issue, decision of  life, or anything else that makes us unique, hates us and we want everyone else to hate them too.  

Yes, people are going to hate things that are different, because different makes people uncomfortable.  Think about this, I don't have to like a person's choice or decision!  That's right.....you read correctly....I don't have to like their choice or decision or lifestyle or hairstyle or food choices or anything else they choose!  Chances are, people don't like some of my choices or decisions either.  

Believe it or not, I know they don't in the way they treat me (ignore me, suddenly stop talking with I walk by) as if I am somehow going to judge them and blast them with hellfire and brimstone. No, I am not one who chooses to Crossfit.  Yes, I do have a sense of humor (and it seems to surprise quite a few people). I am a human being, just like you, and ALL humans (yes, even me) are social beings who enjoy being part of the society in its various forms, sizes, and formations.

But I am commanded by Scripture to love others as I want to be loved.   Scripture also commands me to live in peace with all, as far as it is within my power.  Now this does not mean I will surrender my beliefs or my choices, if means we may agree to disagree.  But it is not MY place to judge any person! And it's not YOUR place to judge any person either!  Even if you don't like their choices, actions, styles, or even if they just rub on you like sandpaper underwear!

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